GAME DAY – July 26th | 6:30 PM – 4:00 AM
A Sports-Themed Kink & Lifestyle Experience
Get in the game and bring your sexiest sports-inspired look—basketball, baseball, volleyball, whatever gets you moving. Game Day is a two-part lifestyle event built for bold, curious, and consent-driven fun.
6:30–9:30 PM | Kinks & Drinks
Ease into the night with a sexy mixer featuring drinks, vibes, and BDSM activations to break the ice and spark connection.
9:30 PM–4:00 AM | Game Day Main Event
Two floors. A jacuzzi. Themed playrooms. BDSM furniture. BYOB. Bring your kink, your energy, and your A-game.
Everyone must be vetted.
Already vetted? You’re good. Just email us at HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com and say you’ve already been vetted and we will check your status and send you a link for tickets!
New or bringing someone new? Head here:
thehardorsoftshow.com/vetting-form
Ticket Options:
• Kinks & Drinks Only
• Game Day (Full Access)
Location shared after approval.
Respect. Consent. Fire vibes. Let’s play.
Game Day
GAME DAY – July 26th | 6:30 PM – 4:00 AM
A Sports-Themed Kink & Lifestyle Experience
Get in the game and bring your sexiest sports-inspired look—basketball, baseball, volleyball, whatever gets you moving. Game Day is a two-part lifestyle event built for bold, curious, and consent-driven fun.
6:30–9:30 PM | Kinks & Drinks
Ease into the night with a sexy mixer featuring drinks, vibes, and BDSM activations to break the ice and spark connection.
9:30 PM–4:00 AM | Game Day Main Event
Two floors. A jacuzzi. Themed playrooms. BDSM furniture. BYOB. Bring your kink, your energy, and your A-game.
Everyone must be vetted.
Already vetted? You’re good. Just email us at HardorSoftevents@gmail.com and ask for the link. We will confirm your status and send it to you once approved!
New or bringing someone new? Head here:
thehardorsoftshow.com/vetting-form
Ticket Options:
• Kinks & Drinks Only
• Game Day (Full Access)
Location shared after approval.
Respect. Consent. Fire vibes. Let’s play.
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